This is why I love Ms. Goldberg. It’s not the first time she has spoken the truth, and it likely won’t be the last.
“Don’t hit anybody!” she says…what a novel idea! No, men shouldn’t hit women. But then, women shouldn’t hit men either. Let’s all just get away from this automatic violence and recognize that problems are solved with words, not fists.
I have never hit, kicked, or slapped anyone…man or woman…in my 30 years of life thusfar, other than when goofing around. And you know what? When my guy friends “punch” me back, it’s what I was expecting would happen and I’m happy that I’m enough of one of the guys that they treat me the same.
Ms. Goldberg is correct: You cannot hit someone, whether playing around or attempting to harm, and not assume you’re going to be hit back.
A series of haikus written by me detailing how I give my lover/friend with benefits a full body orgasm. Caution: It gets fairly saucy. ;)
Hi all. I just got back from doing some grocery shopping (my guinea pig demands romaine and blueberries on hot days like this :P ), and I could be wrong but I believe I met my first in-person MGTOW whilst in line to check out. Here’s what happened, tell me what you think.
This post is a request from a regular reader and commenter, who asked for an open forum to talk about the problems, and possible solutions, of what happens when sexual partners have severely mismatched libidos. So, I am asking all my readers to give advice or share stories of their experiences.
Lately I’ve been reading a lot of posts, written by both men and women, that talk about what people look for in a mate. Now, obviously my definition of “mate” is more casual than most since I have only ever enjoyed a single FwB (although another potential FwB might be on the horizon…not naming any names since he’s a fellow blogger ;) ).
1. Into our town the Hangman came.
Smelling of gold and blood and flame
And he paced our bricks with a diffident air
And built his frame on the courthouse square
1. Do not come into a store 2 minutes before they close, then proceed to shop for the next 15 minutes. Bonus points if you leave without buying anything!
“Don’t knock masturbation…it’s sex with someone I love.” -Woody Allen
Short post today folks, but it’s a topic that’s been in the back of my mind for a while now and I’m hoping it leads to some good discussion. Really, it’s two sides of one coin:
1. Why should one feel pride over something another has done?
2. Why should one feel guilty over something another has done? Continue reading
“Why do men feel threatened by women?” I asked a male friend of mine. So this male friend of mine, who does by the way exist, conveniently entered into the following dialogue.
“I mean,” I said, “men are bigger, most of the time, they can run faster, strangle better, and they have on the average a lot more money and power.”
“They’re afraid women will laugh at them,” he said. “Undercut their world view.”
Then I asked some women students in a quickie poetry seminar I was giving, “Why do women feel threatened by men?”
“They’re afraid of being killed,” they said. Atwood, Margaret, Writing the Male Character (1982)
Observation induced euphoria.
Autonomous sensory meridian response.
Are you single? If so, what type of single person are you? No, I don’t mean I want a list of personality traits…you can be an “adventurous” single woman or a “homebody” single man, but that’s not quite what I’m asking.
I don’t know who you are, but I love you.