Hi, everyone. This is another request post from my commenter MGTOWtrendsetta, aka Maurice. He recently sent me the points below in an email, asking if I could reprint it here to create conversation and obtain more feedback. Given how much I support MGTOWs, how could I refuse? 😉
However, I’m going to suggest doing the comments/feedback a bit differently this time. While people are still quite welcome to leave comments here, I’d like to have the majority of conversation take place at the blog of another MGTOW: my dear friend and frequent commenter, Spawny Get. He only moderates the initial comments that people leave, and thus I think discussion can flow more smoothly at his place. Plus, you all get to visit yet another great MGTOW/Male-friendly blog. Win! Here’s the link to the relevant post:
So, without further ado, here’s MGTOWtrendsetta:
I’m coming to you today because I feel that MGTOW has started to reach a point in which some parameters should be put in place because I think there is a lot of confusion on what MGTOW means and it seems no one really wants to define it, which is very understandable, but I do feel that parameters should be in place. A foundation per se, but I don’t really know the best way to present it or how to. I thought I would run it by you and maybe you could give me any suggestion. Check it out.
I don’t want to define what MGTOW is or what it should be, but I do believe that parameters should be in place for the simple fact that you will eventually start seeing all kinds of people claiming that they are MGTOW when in fact they are a sub group of what MGTOW stands for. So I have compiled a small list that hopefully all MGTOW can semi agree on and hopefully come to a full agreement of what the standards should be. I feel that the strongest statement is number 1, these statements will go in order so In my opinion you can’t be a true MGTOW without them all as well as you have to agree with the first statement before you can move to the next. Please give feedback. I will post this on many YouTube channels and blogs just to see what everyone thinks.
1.A MGTOW must be a MAN- This is given, no if ands or buts.
2.A MGTOW should be for non-traditional marriage- This is where MGTOW stems. I believe you can’t be married and be MGTOW. Married MGTOWs can support the movement but not take on the MGTOW label. Maybe a sub group can be made.
3. A MGTOW should be non-religious- I believe that religion forms a narrative for your life and with that you can’t truly be going your own way. Your following someone else’s way. I believe god and religion are two different things, so believing in god and dictating what “god” means to you is definitely MGTOW.
4. A MGTOW should not be a female hater-A MGTOW cannot be bitter towards women. In fact, I think MGTOW deep down have a strange love for women where we will give them the unedited truth when applicable. A MGTOW understands the female nature and truly what she is and thus moves through life accordingly. To hate women would be to come off as bitter, weak and emotional. MGTOW are strong and confident in whom they are and will eventually set the example.
5. A MGTOW should have an open mind- This is just to say open to new possibilities “The Red Pill”. We are a movement that lives outside the box and not everyone can handle what’s outside the box.
6. A MGTOW should be willing to stand alone- Last but not least, we are Men who are only reacting to an environment in which we deem toxic where only the strong can survive. Adversity will come our way but hey we are MGTOW so FUCK EM.
“First they ignore us, then they laugh at us, then they fight us, then WE win.”
This is just my belief but would like to form it into something that all MGTOW can agree on. Like I said before, I don’t want to dictate what MGTOW is or should be, after this little list the possibilities are endless of the potential of MGTOW, but this is just a set of parameters that hopefully we can come to terms with and if anyone has something else that they deem to be worthy I think everyone would like to hear it. Not so others can understand us but for us to have more cohesion in our message moving forward. Because I do believe for every action there is a reaction and once women understand what has happened and is going on with MGTOW they will have no choice but to change or EAT CAKE.